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[correctiveshoes621]

Huh.

Yesterday, my son had a bunch of his buddies over to play Wii. A pile of laughing, jostling teenagers, eating snacks and acting simple on the living room sofa. Not sure how it happened, but one of them found something wedged down inbetween the sofa cushions.

My late husband's wedding band.

Um. Come ON, now.

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[http://users.livejournal.com/desertelf_/]

Wow. How did it get in the couch in the first place?!?!??

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

The only thing I can POSSIBLY think of is when he was here for those few days pre-flight to TX, when he was writhing around, going thru withdrawal - in all the stress, I honestly didn't notice if he had it on or not. Weird as all shit, though.

He aint happy. That much, I know.

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

P.S. That was back in APRIL.

[rickysbaby.livejournal.com]

What. the. hell??

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

Dood. I know.

[piratesorka.livejournal.com]

oooookay now...if you listen real hard I think you'll hear the theme song from The Twilight Zone...

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

It's never gonna end, is it? He's never gonna leave me alone, is he?

[gayalithiel.livejournal.com]

Eeeeeeeeeee...

(very supportive, no?)

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

"............"

[breakableheart.livejournal.com]

Holy. Crap. :/

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

I know. He hadn't worn it in years. In years. He was here, going thru withdrawal before that final trip to Texas, and I honestly don't recall if he had it on during all that. It really freaked me out. If this is someone's idea of a joke? It aint funny. :/

[timberwolfoz.livejournal.com]

Umwha?

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

That's pretty much MY whole take on the thing..

[beetle-breath.livejournal.com]

pawn that shit

unless it holds meaning to you, so disregard that. (and please don't take offense!)

[indiwise.livejournal.com]

Honestly, I'm thinking that he is NOT happy, not at rest - and that I will NEVER get 'my share' of his ashes, at this point. They've been divided between Texas, Georgia and...supposedly, here, at some distant future point - NOT intact, NOT at all what he wanted......So, maybe this ring is what I am supposed to somehow take in their stead, and put it where he wanted it to be - at that state park, as per his request. I don't know, at this point, but I really need closure. Creepy.

[beetle-breath.livejournal.com]

I don't think that's creepy at all. Go for it. Do what will bring you closure and will make you happy.