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Mar. 21st, 2004 12:06 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
correctiveshoes621Oooh, man 'o man 'o man.
A big hug for *so* many on my flist. No idea what is going on with some..but the others? I can totally relate. My first instinct *always* is to fix things; make peace when needed at all costs, be a cozy shoulder for venting, do whatever I can..because so many have done so much FOR ME.
Just my opinion, of course; but, it worries me when someone pushes those that matter so damn much to them AWAY. It is almost a kind of preparation for something..for change, certainly..for a fresh start, hopefully..but, it does not bode well with me; I won't lie about that. It reeks, in fact, of my own modus operandi when I am 'in The Bad Place'. I know the territory too well (could just about write you a map), and the places it could very well lead to. I always push people away, 'cos I hate to spill the blood of my (usually silly self-pity) pain all over the place.
Change is messy.
I have always been able to come out of that mental dark cave eventually. It almost feels like there is no floor under your feet..you gotta just let the waves of it carry you a while..and see where it leads to. Eventually, I have always been able to find a new foundation.
I am not trying to be a 'buttinski', so please, understand that. I just hate it when people are hurting.
Control freak? Me? Nah.
This is from a poster at my daughter's college...
Nazi Collaborators' contributions to Bush family --
$1.5 million
War for Oil and Private Interests --
$87 Billion
Government 'Free' Trade Agreements --
132,000 Jobs in Pennsylvania ALONE
Doing something about it?
PRICELESS
A big hug for *so* many on my flist. No idea what is going on with some..but the others? I can totally relate. My first instinct *always* is to fix things; make peace when needed at all costs, be a cozy shoulder for venting, do whatever I can..because so many have done so much FOR ME.
Just my opinion, of course; but, it worries me when someone pushes those that matter so damn much to them AWAY. It is almost a kind of preparation for something..for change, certainly..for a fresh start, hopefully..but, it does not bode well with me; I won't lie about that. It reeks, in fact, of my own modus operandi when I am 'in The Bad Place'. I know the territory too well (could just about write you a map), and the places it could very well lead to. I always push people away, 'cos I hate to spill the blood of my (usually silly self-pity) pain all over the place.
Change is messy.
I have always been able to come out of that mental dark cave eventually. It almost feels like there is no floor under your feet..you gotta just let the waves of it carry you a while..and see where it leads to. Eventually, I have always been able to find a new foundation.
I am not trying to be a 'buttinski', so please, understand that. I just hate it when people are hurting.
Control freak? Me? Nah.
This is from a poster at my daughter's college...
Nazi Collaborators' contributions to Bush family --
$1.5 million
War for Oil and Private Interests --
$87 Billion
Government 'Free' Trade Agreements --
132,000 Jobs in Pennsylvania ALONE
Doing something about it?
PRICELESS
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Date: 2004-03-21 09:55 am (UTC)remaining anonymous... out of respect... but am really concerned... for whoever you're talking about.
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Date: 2004-03-21 10:03 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-03-21 10:07 am (UTC)That poster - IT'S A LIE I TELL YOU A LIE!
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Date: 2004-03-21 10:45 am (UTC)What are you talking about???
Where the hell are you?
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Date: 2004-03-21 10:48 am (UTC)I be right here, working on a pikchure.
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Date: 2004-03-21 10:52 am (UTC)*Then? Have a long talk with you....MOM Lecture # 4,765*