I'm so glad you're going - I'm kinda gutted that I'm not - on the big 40th, too! My friend has kind of vanished from fb, too; she's done this before -- but this time when I left the message that I would not be able to come she just DISAPPEARED..SHE went and got the tickets, not asking me - AND booked a hotel for the show - aaaaaack, I could scream.