Oh Indi, don't beat yourself up. I'm sure he'll come around and understand eventually. As long as you know in your heart you did your best, and you say you did, don't lump yourself in 'with all the rest'. He knows you and I'm sure now that he knows you were there, maybe he'll think you were one of the bright spots in her last days.

And condolences to you and him and his family. I don't know how you do it and God bless you for your work.